My longtime bff Lesa and I were talking about relationships. We both have not been in one for a very long time. Her description of a relationship being “sparked in the Spirit” really resonates with me for several reasons: 1) I would like to experience being loved romantically without having any physical contact 2) I would like to be with someone who also knows he is a spiritual being, having a human experience, knowing he is on a divine assignment and has a divine destiny 3) I would like the “spark” be in my spirit and not between my legs as it’s been in the past. I have made the mistake of always choosing a man by the way he affects my libido and that has not worked for me so I am willing to wait and allow God to do the choosing for me.

Today I trust God with my love life and I give the desires of my heart to Him.