by Arida Wright | Oct 21, 2020 | Soul Songs
Making the same mistakes when it comes to romantic relationships is so depressing. When I meet someone I am attracted to, there is this compulsion to “dive in” mixed with the mental obsession of having the person. Then, not being able to put the brakes on...
by Arida Wright | Oct 19, 2020 | Soul Songs
Today, October 17th I celebrate my 7th year being celibate. I didn’t mean to do it for this long. I only wanted to finally take the suggestion they give in 12 programs to do your first year without being in a relationship if you come in without one. I...
by Arida Wright | Jul 17, 2020 | Soul Songs
In SLAA (Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous) each person decides what their bottom line behavior is that they will abstain from. We also abstain from behaviors we consider a “slippery slope” which leads to acting out on the bottom line behavior. Abstaining...
by Arida Wright | Jul 16, 2020 | Soul Songs
I also had an addiction to porn. It started real young when I discovered my father’s Playboy magazines hidden in the basement laundry room. Doing the laundry on Saturday was one of my chores so I would bide my time looking through the pages at the slick, glossy...
