by Arida Wright | Aug 28, 2020 | Soul Songs
The chorus to the song Gigolos get Lonely Too says, “Contrary to rumor, gigolos get lonely too. All my lovers need stimulation. But honey babe, I think that I need you….” I truly used to think when I was a gigolo that I really needed the men I was...
by Arida Wright | Aug 16, 2020 | Soul Songs
I’m thinking what a crock that is cause if I get honest with myself, YES I WANT YOU TO CHANGE to try and please me! If I try to change you, I’ll be in the wromg/ Relationships and friendships must be allowed to flow in order to grrow. My control issues...
by Arida Wright | Jul 25, 2020 | Soul Songs
If I could be honest with myself, I’d admit that when I met this person, I was really in a needy place and was not capable at the time of loving myself. Trying to manipulate the person to love me the way I wanted to be loved when I didn’t even know what...
by Arida Wright | Jul 23, 2020 | Soul Songs
Self-centeredness is a defect of character I have to constantly ask God to remove. It has been the source of most of my problems, most of my pain. Decisions based on self have led me to put expectations on others that they could not possibly fulfill. When they did not...
by Arida Wright | Jul 23, 2020 | Soul Songs
A lot of times when I got angry in a love relationship, it had very little to do with the other person and how they were treating me but it had everything to do with what I was doing which was usually settling and selling myself short just to be with them. Or the sex...
