by Arida Wright | Oct 21, 2020 | Soul Songs
Making the same mistakes when it comes to romantic relationships is so depressing. When I meet someone I am attracted to, there is this compulsion to “dive in” mixed with the mental obsession of having the person. Then, not being able to put the brakes on...
by Arida Wright | Aug 24, 2020 | Soul Songs
Being a recovering co-dependent sometimes causes me to be a doormat in social situations and I give up my self-respect for social acceptance. When I feel that need in myself to compromise my beliefs, my standards, my religion, my truth, just to be accepted, that is...
by Arida Wright | Jul 20, 2020 | Soul Songs
It has been said there are no victims, only volunteers. As I grow older and live longer, I am finally begging to understand what this means. It means I made a choice to be in a romantic relationship, usually out of some self-serving need. It was rarely ever about...