by Arida Wright | Oct 19, 2020 | Soul Songs
I have a dream that if I ever meet someone again who was to be a romantic partner in my life, that I would come into that relationship healthy, not broken, not needing to be fixed nor looking to fix anyone. I would have my own – God bless the child who’s...
by Arida Wright | Jul 23, 2020 | Soul Songs
Self-centeredness is a defect of character I have to constantly ask God to remove. It has been the source of most of my problems, most of my pain. Decisions based on self have led me to put expectations on others that they could not possibly fulfill. When they did not...
by Arida Wright | Jul 23, 2020 | Soul Songs
A lot of times when I got angry in a love relationship, it had very little to do with the other person and how they were treating me but it had everything to do with what I was doing which was usually settling and selling myself short just to be with them. Or the sex...
by Arida Wright | Jul 20, 2020 | Soul Songs
It has been said there are no victims, only volunteers. As I grow older and live longer, I am finally begging to understand what this means. It means I made a choice to be in a romantic relationship, usually out of some self-serving need. It was rarely ever about...
