July 23 Owning My Part VI

Self-centeredness is a defect of character I have to constantly ask God to remove. It has been the source of most of my problems, most of my pain. Decisions based on self have led me to put expectations on others that they could not possibly fulfill. When they did not...

July 21 Owning My Part IV

A lot of times when I got angry in a love relationship, it had very little to do with the other person and how they were treating me but it had everything to do with what I was doing which was usually settling and selling myself short just to be with them. Or the sex...

July 20 Owning My Part III

It has been said there are no victims, only volunteers. As I grow older and live longer, I am finally begging to understand what this means. It means I made a choice to be in a romantic relationship, usually out of some self-serving need. It was rarely ever about...